“Instead of ‘What should I say?’ here’s a better question. Ask, ‘What’s the real battle going on in my friend?’ Think beneath. Then ask, ‘What do I most want to see happen in my friend’s life?’ Think vision. And now, ‘What stirs in me as I listen?’ Think passion.”
Questions for Reflection:
- Are there any relationships in your life right now where you might be able to apply these three ideas? What prevents you from asking these questions?