51tjTiwgQWL._SX331_BO1,204,203,200_“Instead of ‘What should I say?’ here’s a better question.  Ask, ‘What’s the real battle going on in my friend?’ Think beneath.  Then ask, ‘What do I most want to see happen in my friend’s life?’  Think vision.  And now, ‘What stirs in me as I listen?’  Think passion.”
Questions for Reflection:
  • Are there any relationships in your life right now where you might be able to apply these three ideas?  What prevents you from asking these questions?